It’s often the simplest things in life that bring us the most joy. It’s not always the most outrageous, flamboyant, or overt occurrences that leave the deepest memories. While yes, they can be vivid experiences, often our lives are shaped deeply by some of the most serene and quietest moments. The simple act of just … being there. Wherever “there” is.
I have been given the gift of a job that takes me to some of the worlds most beautiful places. I love to see the touristy sights, of course. But I always take moments during my travels to simply breathe and take it all in. To find the serenity of watching and learning about a culture far different from my own.
When we go to someone else’s home, as in their country, we should immerse ourselves in humbleness of our surroundings. And allow the simplicity of the experience to sink in. Pushing ourselves to see every inch of a city within a very short window leaves us stressed. And we miss the very essence of something exciting and new. Yes, of course, see the colosseum or the Vatican in Rome. See the Eiffel Tower or the Louvre in Paris, and Big Ben and Westminster Abby in London… but also remember that the people and the culture are what sets that place apart from anywhere else in the world. Take the time to simply exist there. Find the serenity that makes that place special. This will bring unobstructed and beautiful memories of a place that welcomed you with open arms.
I often post photos on Facebook of my adventures overseas. As I stated, I try to take in a few touristy things that I’ve never seen before, but most will notice, I usually find the time to sit at a curb side café with a good book, a glass of wine, a little local nosh … and I simply enjoy being there. I watch the old women bringing bags of bread, and vegetables home from the corner market in Paris or Rome. Nannies pushing prams and plaid clothed school kids dancing down the tree covered boroughs of London, not to mention the interesting sights that present themselves during a leisurely evening stroll down the streets of London’s Soho and West End districts. These have honestly turned out to be my favorite memories of all my travels. Seeing the everyday life a culture so very different from my own.
Now, also try this at home… stop for twenty minutes to look around you. Notice things. Sit on your front porch and smile at your neighbor for no apparent reason, or at least those neighbors who won’t mistake your smile as you being up to no good. LOL Take a few moments to watch the butterfly that just landed on your mailbox. Listen to someone else’s music from the car next to you, even if its loud or not your cup of tea. Stop the next time you see a vendor selling produce by the side of the road, compliment them on their selection, and purchase something if you can. I guarantee that you will remember that spot every time you drive by.
Folks, it’s the peaceful things in life that leave us with the sweetest and most unique memories. Take the moments to enjoy every precious one of them.
Donna Fera
AuthorDonna Fera‘s writing invites readers to explore unknown worlds alongside courageous heroes as they face thrilling challenges and uncover hidden secrets. With a Bachelor of Arts in History and Anthropology from University of North Carolina at Charlotte, Donna is able to take her readers on amazing journeys that draw upon her background in research and learning practices. Combined with her experience in the airline industry and special projects, Donna creates stories that captivate readers with their combination of organizational detail and customer service resolution. Join Donna on this remarkable journey!
